Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Rocks and Hard Places


Love him
but
He’s a serial dater
Every other week he is in love

All educated
All smart
All with
that
smile
on their faces

When he introduces them to me

All generous
All with substance
Kind

So excited to have him in their
lives

None know
that they are just filling in the space
Until….

The next one comes

Every conversation he tells me of how each one is

DIFFERENT

I always respond

“No really?”

But I also remind him that each of them have a commonality.

They have fallen victim to his games
His indecisiveness
His search
for
that perfect women

The ones I personally

deem

perfect
for him are the ones

He

Runs from

Because

they expect him to maintain
the image he portrayed

Initially

He perceives it as
Clingy

and says

They require too much
of him

he fights for no relationship
and says

“Chicks are dispensable’

I ask what if someone said that about me?

He says

“They do”


I hold back tears

But we are like that

Brutally honest

with each other

The newest one
He introduced to me
Yesterday

Had tricks up her sleeve
Has lesson’s she wants to teach him
I could tell

So I asked

and


She confirmed

I wanna tell him
But the woman in me wants him to learn a lesson


Not my place to teach people

lessons on chivalry

also not my place

to save them from being


PLAYED


*Sigh
Love him
but

I gotta meditate on this one.

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